Comments on: On The Ex

By: fitzsimons

fitzsimons — Mon, 12 Jun 2006 00:36:10 +0000

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By: fritx

fritx — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 00:36:09 +0000

I am currently going through a breakup myself. The actual break up happened a month ago, but my ex and I still talk and spend time together. My question is..what does it mean when she tells me how great I am, and that she thinks she made a mistake dumping me? I know she’s working out her feelings, but doesn’t she know how hard it is for me to hear that sort of thing from her?

By: Sean

Sean — Thu, 13 Oct 2005 00:36:08 +0000

By: gordsellar

gordsellar — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 00:36:07 +0000

Ah, but sometimes we find that we bring out the bad in other people. I don’t know why, but it’s true. I have exes whose worst side somehow always came to the fore when they were with me, especially alone with me. I’m a conceptual grudge-holder, I guess. I don’t think of any of my exes, really, but when they pop up from out of nowhere, all that disdain was all ready to be called up from down in the depths, so it seems. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this, either, unless it starts affecting your life when the ex is nowhere to be seen. I do agree with char, though, that after you go through certain sorts of awfulness, you really do know how to make relationships work betrter. I wasted six years on one ex, and I am certain things I learned in that time underpin my much happier, healthy, and grown-up present relationship.

By: Lora

Lora — Fri, 26 Aug 2005 00:36:06 +0000

I always find that a relaitonship sometimes change our behavior.. in a good way.. in terms a way to improve each other better. My boyfriend makes me realize some of my bad personality… for example, I do not know how to apologize … I am a stubborn person.. now.. I always try my best to convince myself to be understanding.. of course.. learn to say sorry… that’s the hard part…:)

By: char

char — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 00:36:05 +0000

I was with my ex for 10 years and I wasted alot of time with him but everything I went through was a growing experience in love and understanding for me and my relationship with Ryan is as good as it is because of all that he put me through!

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Wed, 24 Aug 2005 00:36:04 +0000

I think Vix said it best. I can relate on wanting to be the better person, though. There are some things I did that I’m now ashamed of, but I will never bring them to light, because I’d rather remain as the better person. Heh.

By: Vixx

Vixx — Tue, 23 Aug 2005 00:36:03 +0000

Aw, sorry. I’ve registered as Vixx with a double-ex now so that I’m a) not confusing people and b) making Vix feeling usurped . . . V xx

By: Becca

Becca — Mon, 22 Aug 2005 00:36:02 +0000

Vix: Haha, don’t worry, you’re still my one and only cookie! (Well, the only one that I have no plans of ingesting. Lucky you!)Btw, if you haven’t read the private post, I’ll be in Melbourne Nov 2006. Willie too .He wants you to take him to see weird bands and I want to meet Lola.

By: Vicki

Vicki — Mon, 22 Aug 2005 00:36:01 +0000

You’ve got every right to hold a grudge. Someone who knows that you are vulnerable and uses that to their own advantage, not only gains a hold over you that is hard to break, but places themselves at the very bottom of the emotional food chain.Well done to you for breaking that hold, and for the restraint you showed the other day in not accidentally pushing him in front of a bus…You know you’re a good person, and that’s all that matters P.S. I’ve been replaced!